Thursday, January 31, 2013

J, always good for a laugh.....

There is no doubt that J has no filter, and is quite unique in his view of the world. The other day someone (in a professional capacity) asked Shy what her plans for the future were. J pipes in and says how Shy says Justin Bieber is going to be her future husband. And no, he didn't think that "aspiration" was serious, that was why he said it!

The night before I had dinner delivered, which J had to help by opening the door. No biggie there, except he was wearing a princess dress (and no, we don't care about his variety of play, it means nothing, even if it did mean something it means nothing to us.) I guess the delivery guy gave J a funny look because J tells him "worry about yourself, don't worry about me."

Someone told me he will be fine, he will either conform to fit into what other people expect, or he won't conform because he just doesn't care. I have to say, I hope it is the latter. I am glad he is unique and not scared of what others think! I would rather he have the step ahead, because face it, eventually we all reach the point where we live for ourselves, no longer worrying about pleasing everyone else or what they might think of us. I want him to have that step ahead and be himself forever!

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